How to Move On? | Tragedy | Heart Break- Healing Scribles

by - August 10, 2019

How to Move On? | Tragedy | Heart Break- Tragedies and heart breaks are the part of our life. If you are having a hard time dealing with the situation you are in. You are tired, exhausted and trying to move on with your life but you feel like you are stucked somewhere in those moments where your heart break. Now you want to move on but you just don't know how to move on. If you feel like giving up then this post is for you.

How to Move On

How To Move On?

1) Acknowledge your struggles 

I want you to think of how old are you? Whatever it is. When you were born you were a minuscule piece of flesh and blood, then you came into existence and from the age of 1 to the age of whatever you are, now you came across two problems bigger than your own size but YOU SURVIVED. You spent your life trying to do what you can with your own perspectives. Now something made you stop. Something is killing you and you don't have energy to deal with it. You are halfway through your life journey you struggled for a better future, then why would you give up in the middle of the road? You cannot rest in the middle of road, it's either on the start or the destination.

2) The worst just happened, it’s time to accept the reality 

People leave, things change, we betrayed by the unexpected ones, tragedies happen. Humans shock us to our very soul. The world stop moving around us, but nobody else does. IT IS WHAT IT IS. If this time is the worst that can ever occur in your life, then let me tell you it has end too. Same like the good time started and ended. It too will come to an end. I PROMISE.
Expecting you to forget all the pain and distract yourself is so lame. I want you to take the reality chunk by chunk until you accept it completely. Everyday when you wake up with the mind full of “WHY THIS HAPPENED TO ME? ". I assure you there will come a day when you will wake up to face the reality with the thought yeah the worst happened to me and I was all alone and I did everything by myself.

Acceptance is the only thing that will bring peace in your life. Embracing what you have been through is the beginning of letting go. It happened to you and it's okay because you aren't in that situation anymore. You being dumped, you got manipulated, your job used to give you heart cracks and somehow you got a way out of these situations now that's the part you need to tell people that's how you win with a broken heart. Your weakness is your victory. Embrace it and you will find peace. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi

3) Decide if you don't want to suffer anymore

Life is all about decisions. Nobody can help you until you want to help yourself. Believe me, nothing will work if you aren't done with the person or the situation which is killing you inside. If you expect him or her to return in your life, then you are on the wrong path. Life is pretty straight. We make it overly difficult. It's all about decisions.

What happened to you was unfair or not?

Does it hurt knowing the reality?

Could you stand the person after they hurt you?

Can you ever trust them again?

If the answers are against the person then there is nothing left. It's over. It was a setback, an honest tragedy and setback are okay. Taking a break is okay but giving up isn’t okay. You cannot merely throw your struggles just because you are tired and exhausted. There is a fix of everything.

 4) There is another side of pain, it holds so much power.

When you are going through a heartbreak you get enormous amounts of energy through which you can fix anything. This is when your gym plans will start working out or your life plans which looked stupid to other make you the most successful because pain has so much power when you deal with it nobody can get in your way after that. It made you fearless.

5) Start Over

Heartbreaks give you chance to start over your life again. At this point you have the power, you have experience and most importantly, you have your focus in control. Then why not start afresh? Why not start working on goals? Why not take the space that life gave you this time? You wounds will start healing the minute you decide to live. It will work this time because you aren't the same anymore.

Value the moment when you feel giving up because that is the one plot twist in your story "Either it will make you change your life or it will make you sit on your knees to teach you how to stand tall again"@healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi

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