How to be Happy | 10 Rules of Happiness | Self Motivation - Healing Scribles

by - August 14, 2019

How to be Happy | 10 Rules of Happiness | Self Motivation - Living in a world where humanity is losing we find it hard to be happy. Happiness isn't a tricky concept, it won't take your time it's just a matter of realization of few things once you got it. It will worth it. If you want to be happy and you don't know what it takes to be happy then these are the 10 rules of happiness which will guide you on how to be happy? A checklist on how to be happy through which you can make sure if you are happy or not?


How to be Happy?


How to be Happy | 10 Rules of Happiness

#1 Rule of Happiness
Try to fit in their heart, but don't try to fit in their lives without their wish. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
There is a fine line between falling in love or just liking someone. You probably like a bunch of people, but you cannot love all of them. Become their habit they will probably fall in love with you that is a distraction. People do feel different when you are around them most of the time, but it doesn’t mean they will want you for the rest of their live. It’s the matter of hearts.

#2 Rule of Happiness
Good life never represented the concept of hurdles free life. Every worthy thing in this life comes with a price to pay. If you suppose you never had a hardship, then reconsider whatever you are doing and when you accept hardships in your life you won't be disappointed again. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi

Difficulties and bad experiences are the sign that you are doing something in your life you are moving, you are trying to figure out your life and it is never connected to your happiness. It is OK to feel sad when things aren’t working out. It is the mark of your growth and moving forward.

#3 Rule of Happiness
Life is nothing without achievements and achievements never come without doing work or facing hardships.
@healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi

One day I was sitting with one of my friends who was the only child of his rich parents and he never cared about his grades or getting a job. The man taught me this and this really hits me bad. He said when I am sitting with you guys, I realize I have nothing to talk about yeah okay I have everything but I never achieved anything on my own. My parents have everything and I thought that’s enough, but after wasting half of my life today I realized I have nothing.

Achievements are the foundation of your future and future is built through a lot of struggles and hard work.

#4 Rule of Happiness
Don't believe that you need another person to be happy in your life. You are supposed to be happy by yourself, other people can only add spice in your existing happiness. You cannot expect them to do all for you. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
It is unfortunate that we aren’t familiar with the concept of happiness. Now I want you to think about this when you start a new thing a friendship or a business you go there to tell them what you have right? You tell them your skills, your life experiences, your personality traits and then they decide if they can take you in or not. Sooner or later they figure out if you were telling them the truth or not. Life is just like that everyone wants to be the best version of themselves and the thing is you cannot be the best version of yourself until you work for it. Being with someone isn’t the solution.


#5 Rule of Happiness
Give them priority as much as you want, but Don’t expect the same from them.
@healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
Just because you are in love with someone doesn’t mean they will love you back. You are entirely in charge of yourself when it comes to feelings, whatever you practice either it’s love or hate only you can take back your decisions. If someone is your number one priority doesn’t mean you are also their priority. Neither you can force them to make you their priority. IT IS WHAT IT IS.


#6 Rule of Happiness
Everything requires complete attention either it's a relationship or a goal. Don't get involved if you aren't ready
@healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
Concentration is the key to every door. Whatever you do. Try to do it with your whole heart. Undivided attention is dangerous for your goals and you will be disappointed in the end.

#7 Rule of Happiness
Respect yourself so you know exactly when people aren't treating you well. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
Nobody can treat you bad until or unless you allow them to treat you a certain way.


#8 Rule of Happiness
Fall in love with your own flaws. They aren't here to make you feel less. They are here to make you different, so you won't fall in the category of "SAME"@healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
How to love yourself is the knowledge not everyone have although we should have. Our flaws are here to make our personality. What if everyone in this world becomes flawless just imagine this world losing its meaning in a minute.


#9 Rule of Happiness
Do not make assumptions about  your place in someone's life. Keep this in your mind if they want you to be in their life they won't let you go at any cost. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
If you get a person you always wanted, would you be careless or let them go easily? I think you got your answer. There is no point in over thinking when things are pretty straight. Don’t waste your time just to feel unwanted.


#10 Rule of Happiness
Grab your beliefs tightly and do not let anyone keep your voice down just because you believe in different things. Always Remember being different bring difference in this world. Don't be ashamed of it. @healingscribles | Farah Zainab Naqvi
Your principles and your beliefs are something in which you invested your time to make a foundation of your life. Don’t be ashamed of it there is always a room for flexibility. 


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